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10 Sneaky Signs of Hormone Imbalance Most Women Ignore

July 26, 20253 min read

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Let’s be real:
You didn’t wake up one day and say,
“Ya know what would be fun? Mood swings, night sweats, and crying at insurance commercials.”

But if lately you’ve felt off and you can’t quite explain why — you’re not alone.
Midlife hormonal shifts are sneaky little ninjas, and they don’t always show up like you’d expect.


Here are 10 red flags your hormones may be whispering (or screaming) for help:

1. You forget why you walked into the room... again.

Brain fog isn’t just about age. Estrogen plays a huge role in memory, focus, and recall. Fun fact: you have estrogen receptors throughout your body! It's not just a sex hormone.

2. You’re exhausted, even when you sleep.

Fatigue that doesn’t improve with rest is a classic sign your adrenal system and hormones are on edge.

3. You feel more ragey than usual — like, “side-eyeing your husband for breathing too loud” rage.

That’s not just stress. Progesterone dips can lower your calm factor, big time.

4. Your weight is doing its own thing… and it’s not cute.

Belly bloat, slow metabolism, and stubborn fat can all stem from too much cortisol and not enough estrogen.

5. Sleep? What’s that?

If you’re waking up drenched or wide-eyed at 3am, it could be hormone-induced insomnia or changes in your glucose regulation (also impacted when estrogen declines).

6. You’ve got aches in places you didn’t know could ache.

Joint stiffness, sore muscles, or weird tingles can signal inflammation or estrogen loss. Estrogen protects our bodies against inflammation, and it helps muscles rebuild and recover.

7. Your skin feels drier, thinner, or just… sad.

Hormones affect collagen, hydration, and skin glow — especially around menopause because estrogen is our master lubricator. It keeps all the joints, skin, and mucosal areas moist and moveable. (Think of the Tin Man in the Wizard of Oz with his can of oil).

8. You feel invisible. Or irrelevant. Or just ‘not you’.

It’s not all physical. Hormonal shifts hit your confidence and identity like a freight train.

9. Your digestion is suddenly moody too.

Bloating, constipation, or gut weirdness often points to estrogen/gut microbiome changes.

10. You’re doing all the things — and still don’t feel better.

That’s a sign your body needs a deeper kind of support, not just more willpower.


💡 So what now?

First: You’re not broken.
Second: You don’t need to navigate this alone.
There is a way to feel like yourself again — and it doesn’t involve guessing or Googling your symptoms at 2AM.


🔄 What’s helped me and my clients?

A targeted Tool Kit with 4 steps:

  • Anti-inflammatory nutrition and Intermittent Fasting

  • Gentle cardio + strength training

  • Clean supplements that support energy, mood, and balance

  • Evidence-based pharmaceuticals (ie: hormone replacement or GLP-1s IF that's appropriate)

If you want a no-pressure way to explore what your body might need right now, I’m happy to send over a quick personalized recommendation. Just comment “Unmute Me” or send me a message.


Your glow isn’t gone — it’s just hiding under burnout. Let’s fix that. 💛

Joyce McCall is a nurse, author, wellness coach, midlife educator, and founder of reJOYCEful Living. She helps women struggling with the messy midlife transition regain their identity, confidence, and wellness again so they can feel valued, vibrant, and purposeful.

Joyce McCall, RN, BSN

Joyce McCall is a nurse, author, wellness coach, midlife educator, and founder of reJOYCEful Living. She helps women struggling with the messy midlife transition regain their identity, confidence, and wellness again so they can feel valued, vibrant, and purposeful.

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